From Burnout to Balance: A Guide to Recognising and Reclaiming Your Energy

Vaishanavi Krishnamoorthy
November 14 , 2024
Burnout isn’t just feeling tired – it’s a state of exhaustion that affects every part of your life. A recent survey by Deloitte found that 77% of respondents have experienced burnout at their current job. If you’re between the ages of 18 and 45 and juggling work, relationships, and personal goals, burnout can sneak up on you when you least expect it.
This post dives into what burnout is, how to recognize it, and practical steps for recovery. Remember, burnout can happen to anyone, and there are ways to bounce back.
What is Burnout?
Burnout is a syndrome resulting from prolonged, unmanaged stress, characterized by exhaustion, detachment, and reduced personal achievement. According to the World Health Organization, burnout is now classified as a medical diagnosis, and job-related burnout has been linked to a 63% increase in sick leave and a 40% increase in turnover rates.
Dr. Sherrie Bourg Carter, psychologist and author, explains, “Burnout is not just physical exhaustion. It’s also emotional and psychological depletion, making it hard to enjoy even the things that once brought you joy.”
Burnout isn’t limited to work. Caregiving, school, and relationship stress can also be significant contributors. Recognizing burnout early is critical to addressing it effectively.
Signs of Burnout
Identifying burnout can be challenging since the symptoms often overlap with regular stress or fatigue. Here are some clear signs:
Physical Exhaustion Consistently feeling fatigued is a key burnout symptom. A study published in The Lancet found that those experiencing burnout are at a higher risk for heart disease, insomnia, and other health complications.
Emotional Numbness Burnout can lead to emotional detachment. Tasks and people that once excited you may now feel overwhelming or unimportant. “People in burnout often feel like they’re going through the motions,” says Dr. Marie Asberg, a Swedish psychiatrist who studies burnout. “It’s as if the volume of life has been turned down.”
Reduced Productivity Struggling to complete tasks you once found manageable? A 2019 Gallup poll found that 23% of employees feel burnt out at work very often or always, leading to decreased productivity and efficiency.
Health Issues Frequent headaches, stomach-aches, and other stress-related symptoms are common in burnout. This is often due to the body’s prolonged exposure to stress hormones like cortisol.
Increased Irritability Small issues become big problems, and patience becomes a rare commodity. Burnout can make you feel easily annoyed or overwhelmed.
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Example: Imagine you used to love organizing events at work. Now, just the idea of planning makes you feel physically and emotionally drained. You may find yourself snapping at colleagues or dreading interactions.
Causes of Burnout
Burnout is often caused by a combination of external pressures and internal tendencies. Here are some common factors:
Overwork: Constantly pushing yourself to meet deadlines without breaks is a fast track to burnout. According to the American Institute of Stress, 80% of employees feel stress on the job, and nearly half say they need help in managing it.
Perfectionism: The pressure to do everything perfectly can lead to intense, unsustainable stress. Perfectionists are more likely to experience burnout because they set unrealistically high standards.
Lack of Control: Feeling powerless in your role, whether due to a demanding boss or an inflexible environment, can be incredibly stressful. A Harvard Business Review study found that employees who feel they lack control are more prone to experiencing chronic stress.
Neglecting Self-Care: Self-care often takes a back seat when life gets busy. Dr. Christina Maslach, a burnout researcher, notes that burnout frequently arises when people prioritize work over personal needs for too long.
Example: A new parent might face burnout from balancing caregiving and a full-time job, with little energy left for themselves.
Steps to Recover from Burnout
Recovering from burnout takes time, but with the right steps, you can regain your sense of well-being. Here’s how:
Acknowledge and Accept: The first step is recognising that you’re experiencing burnout. Self-awareness can help you start addressing it rather than trying to push through it. Dr. Asberg explains, “Once you accept it, you give yourself permission to slow down and recover.”
Set Boundaries: Learning to say no is essential. Setting boundaries with work, family, or social commitments can reduce stress and protect your time. Harvard Business School found that people who enforce boundaries report 30% greater life satisfaction.
Prioritise Self-Care: Sleep, exercise, and balanced nutrition play critical roles in recovery. Aim for at least 7–8 hours of sleep, regular physical activity, and healthy meals. These small changes can make a big difference in your energy levels.
Reconnect with Enjoyable Activities: Take time for hobbies or interests you’ve put on hold. Reconnecting with what you love can help reawaken your energy and passion.
Seek Support: Talking to trusted friends or family can ease the burden. A therapist can also help provide coping strategies tailored to your situation.
Practice Mindfulness: Techniques like meditation, journaling, and deep breathing can calm the mind. Studies show that even 5–10 minutes of mindfulness daily can reduce stress and improve mental clarity.
Example: If you’re feeling overwhelmed by deadlines, consider taking a break for a short walk or practicing deep breathing exercises.
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How to Prevent Burnout in the Future
Preventing burnout is as important as recovering from it. Here are some long-term habits to consider:
Set Realistic Goals: Instead of striving for perfection, aim for achievable progress. This mindset shift can relieve pressure and keep stress manageable.
Take Regular Breaks: Short breaks during work hours can improve productivity. The Pomodoro Technique, where you work for 25 minutes and rest for 5, has been shown to boost focus and energy.
Build a Support System: Surrounding yourself with understanding friends, family, or colleagues can help you manage stress and stay grounded.
Practice Self-Compassion: Don't be hard on yourself for needing breaks or making mistakes. Treat yourself with the same compassion you’d offer a friend.
Learn to Delegate: Recognize that you don’t have to do everything alone. Whether it’s at home or work, sharing responsibilities lightens your load.
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When to Seek Help
If burnout feels overwhelming or persistent, consider reaching out for professional support. Therapy can help you explore deeper causes of stress and develop a customized recovery plan.
Call to Action: If you’re interested in personalized support, why not take advantage of a free, pro-bono therapy session? Talking to a professional can provide valuable insights, tools, and guidance as you work toward feeling like yourself again.
Take the first step today – consider signing up for a therapy session and reclaiming your energy and well-being.
Reclaiming Your Energy and Well-Being
Burnout can feel overwhelming, but now you know how to recognize its signs, understand its causes, and start your journey to recovery. Remember, burnout affects every aspect of your life, but by setting boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and seeking support, you can rebuild your resilience and joy.
Reflect on the steps we’ve discussed today – whether it’s starting with small boundaries or reaching out for a supportive conversation, every step is a positive shift toward well-being. If you feel that burnout is beyond what you can manage alone, don’t hesitate to seek help. Take the next step today and consider scheduling a therapy session through Heart It Out to guide you on your path back to yourself.
Burnout doesn’t define you, and recovery is possible. Embrace the small changes, reach out for support, and remember – your well-being matters.
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