Mental health is an important aspect of general well-being, but for LGBTQIA+ people in South Asian countries, maintaining good mental health can be extremely difficult. Social stigma, prejudice, and a lack of knowledge about LGBTQIA+ problems all contribute to a stressful setting that harms their mental health. This blog delves into some of the mental health difficulties that LGBTQIA+ people encounter in South Asia, emphasising the importance of more support and acceptance. 

Stigma in South Asian Culture

In many South Asian countries, LGBTQIA+ people endure significant stigma and prejudice. Being different from what is considered normal can result in isolation, harassment, and even violence. Many people in these societies are obliged to conceal their true identities for fear of being shunned by their families, friends, and society at large. Traditional cultural standards, in most Asian countries, typically reject sexual orientations and gender identities that are not heterosexual or cis-gender. Homophobia and transphobia are profoundly embedded in our culture, making it difficult for LGBTQIA+ people to live freely and authentically. The constant urge to conform can lead to mental health issues like anxiety, and depression. Furthermore, according to a study conducted by Sharon Rostosky et al, LGBTQIA+ individuals experience extreme hypervigilance in public as well as private settings as stigma-related stress results in hypervigilance.

How Families’ Rejection Affects Lgbtqia+ Individuals

Being a collectivist culture, family is a central part of South Asian cultures. However, for LGBTQIA+ people, family can be a source of tremendous stress. Many LGBTQIA+ people are hesitant to come out to their families for fear of rejection or, worse, disownment.  In severe situations, people may be coerced into marriages or undergo conversion therapy in an attempt to "cure" them of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Fear of disappointing their relatives or bringing shame upon them can lead to feelings of guilt, worthlessness, and loneliness. These feelings are especially strong in countries where familial acceptance and social standing are greatly valued.  In conversation with Psychology Today, Anjali Alimchandani, a queer South Asian psychologist shared how some of her clients who came out to their parents suffered extreme alienation from family members, resulting in loneliness, self-esteem issues, and in some cases, even suicide ideation.

Physical Violence and Harassment

Physical violence and harassment are unfortunately commonplace for many LGBTQIA+ people in South Asia. Hate crimes, bullying, and sexual violence are common, and the lack of legal protection often leaves victims with few options for defense. Trauma from such situations can result in serious mental health problems such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, or depression. The intense stress and despair resulting from continuous assault might lead to suicidal thoughts and actions. LGBTQIA+ people are at a higher risk of suicide than their non-LGBTQIA+ peers.

Social Isolation 

The combined effect of stigma, prejudice, and fear frequently results in social isolation. Many LGBTQIA+ people in South Asia believe they have no one to turn to who understands and supports them. This isolation can be extremely harmful to their mental health, causing emotions of loneliness, hopelessness, and depression. In conversation with Quartz, Alyy, a queer Sikh, talks about how being a queer person in a South Asian family can be extremely exhausting and lonely. They shared that their mother is “aggressively ignorant” of their queerness and their father, “largely unaware”. This demonstrates a lack of awareness about and sensitivity toward queer individuals, even among families. This kind of treatment may lead to extreme self-esteem issues, which can further manifest in the kind of relationships one seeks out and one’s overall functioning. 

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Future/Career Anxiety

Furthermore, the challenges faced by queer individuals can impact their future and career prospects. This may lead to severe future and/ or career anxiety. Since parents funding their children’s education, even up until their master’s degree is the norm in South Asian countries, queer individuals may stress about their access to education if their true identity is revealed to their parents, which may lead to anxiety issues.  Additionally, the pressure to hide their true identities can limit the career choices of LGBTQIA+ individuals. They may avoid certain professions or workplaces where they fear they might not be accepted or safe. Working in an environment where one cannot be open about their identity can lead to lower job satisfaction and productivity. 

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Limited Access to Mental Health Care

Access to mental health services is limited in many South Asian nations, particularly for LGBTQIA+ people. There is a shortage of qualified mental health experts who understand LGBTQIA+ issues, and many healthcare providers have discriminatory beliefs that may discourage people from seeking help. When they seek help, they may face therapists who are unprepared to cope with their individual requirements, resulting in ineffective or harmful treatment.

LGBTQIA+ people in South Asian countries experience a multitude of mental health issues, which are firmly rooted in socioeconomic, cultural, and legal conditions. Addressing these difficulties will need a collaborative effort from governments, mental health experts, and society as a whole. Creating a more inclusive and welcoming atmosphere will benefit not only the mental health and well-being of LGBTQIA+ people, but also society as a whole. Everyone has the right to live honestly and authentically, without fear or discrimination.

If you are an LGBTQIA+ person in South Asia experiencing discrimination or its mental health consequences, please know that you are not alone. There are resources available to help. Seek professional help from therapists who specialise in LGBTQIA+ issues. You can reach out to professionals at Heart It Out here.